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What about a mentor? Have you found somebody who you respect and who you can take a lead from? Find a mentor. Model yourself around that person. It's the quickest path to achieving what you want. Read on...

If you want to be successful at something, perhaps the easiest way is to look for somebody who is already successful in that field. Once you have done that you can then model yourself around that person. For instance, if you want to learn guitar find a good guitarist who can either teach you personally or, if that is not possible, you can copy the way they play.

Make sure that the person you choose is successful. What would be the sense in taking advice from somebody who has no experience? Many people do just that. They listen to somebody who has no idea. Often such a person is a family member or a friend. Dare I say it? The all-knowing brother-in-law or sister-in-law. They just know everything about everything. Don't they?

It is wise to take advice but only from those who you know are qualified to give it. If in doubt, do some research. Find out more about the coach or mentor you are considering using. Does that person have the track record that you wish you had? If so, go ahead - approach them. Some will decline but many will be flattered. Remember this too - if you don't ask, the answer is always "no."

Warren Buffet is the most experienced and successful investor in the world. Do you think it might be a good idea to take investment advice from him? You can, you know. You don't have to know him personally. In fact, even getting an audience with him would be virtually impossible. But he does have many books that you can study. Here is a quote from Warren Buffet:

"If you can tell me who your heroes are I can tell you how you are going to turn out in life."

The quote above indicates that Warren Buffet believes that he is able to tell what sort of person you will become not only by who you idolize but also by the type and quality of people who you associate with. Do you think Mr Buffet might have powerful, influential and forward thinking friends and associates? You better believe it. What about you? What are your key friends and associates like? Might it be time to start seeking out people that you can move forward with?

What about a mentor? Have you found somebody who you respect and who you can take a lead from? Find a mentor. Model yourself around that person. It's the quickest path to achieving what you want.

Gary Simpson is a 7th Dan karate master who teaches self defense, motivation, self help and wealth building to students around the world through home study courses. You may reprint this article as you include this author credit and an active link to his web site. Finance - Self Help - Motivation - Self Defense - Personal Growth MotivationSelfEsteem.com